Let the Games begin! (part 1)

Dating is a game, awaiting to see who folds first..

Who gives up the goods and show their cards.
Unfortunately, when you show what your working with, your opponent has the ability to toy with you, play with your emotions and completely make you believe that they are trying to help you win the game. I have been in this game for a long time now…and finally I have developed a new strategy. This strategy can be used for both men and women…but I’m a women, so here is my perspective…


My new strategy consists of categories. Think of it this way…
When you’re dating, the initial interest starts with someone that you are mainly focused on
Thinking in the beginning that they are all about you and their interest is to be only a partner for you
Until one day, when they show their cards and you realize that they are making some BS moves
This is when you determine which category to place them in, or if you want to fold and get out of playing the game with them completely.
When playing a game with someone, you have your partner and you have your opponents.
In the game of life, it is up to you to determine who plays which role
However, in describing the partner role
This person plays side by side with you, putting all their interest in what is best for the both of you and doing it all with their focus on winning this game together. Not many people are compatible to you or are capable of being your partner; therefore you have to choose wisely.
You have to place people in that partner seat, to play a couple rounds of the dating game to see if they are worthy of staying in this position.
As if they are not, and you notice that they are not with you, but are against you, making you feel like all they want to do is take your pawns and knights just to get closer to your Queen to toy with your emotions
This is when you realize that you’re playing with an opponent.
Here is where you place these people into categories
Now these categories can change from person to person
However, for me, I have the “I just want to screw you” category,
The “recyclable” category
The “I just want to be your friend” category
And last but not lease, The “disposable” category
Clearly these categories are self explanatory
But allow me to explain…
As mentioned, that partner position should always remain vacate unless one of the players prove themselves that they should not be categorized
Because if they do become categorized, you begin to see what purpose you can allow this person to have in you life, if any…