Like I said, its all a game…its just understanding individual’s purposes and knowing what role they play in your life. I can honestly say that I have played many of games, but to name a few…I’ve played
“The Older Guy Game”
“The Rich Guy that Always Have to Tell You What They Got Game”
“The too intelligent for your own good Game”
“The boring and lose my attention fast Game”
“The expect women should chase after men Game”
“The good, the bad and the ugly in bed Game”
“The I’m going to take you away from your man Game”
“The liars and the cheaters Game”
“The I’m a church goer but trying to have sex with me on the first date Game”
“The Insecure Game”
“The don't pickup the phone Game”
“The stand me up Game”
“The can I come over at 4am booty call Game”
“The she was just my friend Game”
I can go on and on with listing the names of many games that I've played. And quite frankly, I'll admit that I've lost a few hands, thinking that maybe this time, I was playing with my partner...no real games just something to keep things interesting. Yet, time and time again, has that shown it's true colors and revealed itself to be the very nature of a strategic approach game…as I was placed in a category and I didn’t know my role…caused me to become confused and lose the battle. Who would have thought that I would have lasted this long out here in the field? One would have assumed that bitterness and defensiveness would have taken control and allowed me to be closed away from any new opportunities, new games that is.
Like I said, in dating, it's always a game, whether you are playing it with someone or solitary...either way, my suggestion would be to determine the purpose of these individuals that come into your life…are they “partner” candidates or do they need to be categorized. If neither, dispose them and move on while leaving that “partner” position vacate until that one person decides that they want to fill the position…but before YOU determine if they are going to stay….LET THE GAMES BEGIN!
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